Monday, January 20, 2014

Biography Of Late Madam Adiaha Timothy Akpan



Programme of Events
For  The
Funeral and Thanksgiving Service
In Honour of
Late Madam Adiaha Timothy Akpan
Conducted By:
African Methodist Episcopal Zion Church
Minya, Ikot Abia District
Mkpat Enin L G A
Akwa Ibom State
At
The Deceased Compound
Ikot Ekaide Minya, Mkpat Enin LGA
On
December 21, 2013

By
10.00 am prompt

Officiating Ministers:
Rev. S F Usoh                        P/E, Ikot Abia District
Rev. I G Udoukpeh              Host Pastor
Rev. U. J. Udo
Rev. I. S. Nteng 
Rev. I. M. Akpan
Rev. A. A. Danson
Rev. C. G. John
Rev. G. D. Mbong
Pastor U. M Udoaka

  

Order of Service
Part One
1          9.30 – 10.00am:      Lying in state at the deceased compound, Ikot Ekaide
Minya
2.         Corpse Leaves the deceased residence and is received by the Officiating
Ministers with funeral sentences followed with processional Hymn
No 519 (AMEZH) to the funeral ground
3.         Opening Prayer/Invocation
4.         Opening Hymn No 474 (AMEZH)
5.         Scripture Readings
6.         Prayer for Comfort
7.         Choral Selection
8.         Condolence Messages
9.         Reading of Biography
10.       Hymn of preparation – Hymn No 561 (AMEZH)
11.        Eulogy
12.       Testimonies
            (a) Children
            (b) Sister(s)
            (c) Family
            (d) Village
            (e) Church
13.       Memorial Gift By the Deceased Family
14.       Prayer for the bereaved Family
15.       Ordering of Service of Sorrow
16.       Announcement
17.       Closing Hymn – Hymn No 576 (AMEZH)
17.       Corpse Leaves the Funeral Ground to the Grave Side

Part Two
1                     Procession to the grave side
2                    Hymn No 584 (AMEZH)
3                    Committal Sentences/Choruses
4                    Prayer for sweet repose
5                    Benediction


 
biography of late madam adiaha timothy akpan (Nee, Nne Adiaha)
The day was on a Monday. Little did they know it was set time, but such it was when the cry of a new entrant rented the air bring an end to the fear, pains and agony of procreation. Few caring neighbours rushed in to congratulate and appreciate  the good works of God. Barely after 89 years today, gathered here a large crowd gather in celebration of life and to bid this humble fellow a fare well. It goes to affirm that the day of death is better than the day in which one is born.
Birth and Early Life
Late Madam Adiaha Timothy Akpan was born on the 15th day of February 1924 to the late Timothy Akpan Adia Nkpo Inyang Etuk Essien Ikpe of Ekpuk Anwanga in Ikot Ekaide Minya and Late Martha Akpan Ikporuk Essien Etuk (Nee Martha Unwa Uko Offiong Udo) of Ekpuk Etukudo Umoren Abasi Akpan in Ikot Obong Minya, Mkpat Enin Local Government Area. She was the first daughter to the parent.
She grew up a struggling woman right from youth having lost her parents in a very tender age. She was able to fend for a living with her three younger siblings as God would give them the grace. Life was not at all easy with her and other siblings, but to God be the glory, who proved Himself a father of the fatherless and sustenance.

Marital Life
Late Nne Adiaha  was married to the Late Chief Dickson Inyang Akpaenang of Ekpuk Atan Uto Esang in Ikot Ekaide Minya. The marriage was blessed with four children, 2 boys and 2 girls.
Economic Life
She was of a very low, but humble background. Without parent and who to fall back on, she was not opportune to acquire formal education, even though it was not common place in the time. She was not either opportune to acquire any skilled trade, hence she opted for peasant farming and petty trading. In these, she stood out amongst her peers as she was able to feign for herself and others around her comfortably. She trek distances, went places and deny herself of so many pleasures in search of livelihood. Though life was rough with her from birth, this did not deter her from having and planning her future. Non formal education did not make her illiterate. She had the informal education of sound morals, norms and etiquette that made her fit into any group that found herself.
Since she could not do it herself educationally, she purposed to ensure that she could read and write through others. Because of this zeal, she made it a must that all her children are able to read and write, at least, their names.

Religious Life
As staunched Qua Iboe Church faithful, Late Madam Adiaha Timothy Akpan was made to embraced Christian faith right from birth by the parents. She got baptized in Qua Iboe Church. On getting married she left Qua Iboe Church for A M E Zion Church where she had her full confirmation and became a partaker of the Holy Communion sacrament. While in Zion, she devoted her life to the service of God and humanity. She never lags behind in church programes and activities. A member a various associations both at local and district level. It was in recognition of her little to the service of the Church that the church at the District level decided to honour her in October 1999 by Ikot Abia District

 

Social Life
Late Nne Adiaha Timothy Akpan was peace loving, gentle and honest. She was so social and friendly with all. Nne was a symbol of unity and peace. She was made the women leader by Ekpuk Atan Uto Essang Akpan Abia Annang Ibok Ibom. She served in that capacity creditably to the glory of God until such a time that she was weak and could not undertake strenuous activities.

Call to Glory
Death is inevitable in human existence because one has to rest from his or her labour on earth. Therefore having being blessed with an excess of 19 years above the three score and ten, God deemed it fit to call her to rest of her labour into a higher glory on Tuesday, the 12th day of November 2013 by 3.30am
She is survived by two Sister, Four Children, numerours Grand Children, cousins, nices and great grand children amongst whom were:

Children
Joseph Dickson Inyang - (Businessman)
Adiaha Dickson Inyang – (CNO)
Akon Stanilus Obong - (Business Woman)
Nse Dickson Inyang  - (Auditor)
Udoaka Dickson Inyangenang (Accountant)

Sister                                                                        Daughters-In-Law
Mrs Penninah Timothy Akpan                             Joy Joseph Dickson
Senior Deaconess Lucy E F Akpan                       Glory Udoaka Dickson

Grand Children                                                    Nephews & Nices
Uko Bassey Marcus                                                 A M Browndy (Asst Director, Estab) 
Imaobong Joseph Dickson                                                Mrs Cecilia Sunday Ukpeh
Aniedi Joseph Dickson                                           Anietie Moses Udoh
Emediong Joseph Dickson                                                Udobia Akpadiaha
Mbetobong Joseph Dickson                                  Ekaete Moses Udoh
Uwakmfon Udoaka Inyangenang                         Imaobong Friday
Abasienyene Joseph Dickson                                Grace Monday Browndy
Nsisong Udoaka Inyangenang                              Ufot Umouko
Ediomo Joseph Dickson                                         Eno Akpan Nyong
Nnamnso Udoaka Inyangenang                           Aniefiok Goodnews Edward
Etimbuk Joseph Dickson                                       Akon Moses Udoh
Enwongo Joseph Dickson                                      Grace Moses Udoh
Ndifreke Stanislus                                                  
Uduak Stanislus                                                      Great Grand Children              
Aniedi Sunday Ukpeh                    
Sons – In – Law                                                    Achim Sunday Ukpeh        
Apostle E. F. Akpan                                                 Unyime Anietie Moses                  
Stanislus Akpan Obong                                          Idongesit Anietie Moses
Sunday Udo Ukpeh                                                 AniekanAbasi Friday
Cecilia Friday
Otobong Etebom Browndy
Esther Emmanuel Oko                 





Tribute
To my Beloved Mother
I thank God that you lived a God fearing and fulfilled life while on earth. Your life style is printed on sand of time for us to follow. Nne you were many things to many people, especially your children and those that passed your way. Your mouth was full of blessings and advice. I am consoled that it pleased God to take you home to rest from all these earthly troubles. Adieu Nne. Rest in perfect peace in the Lord till the wonderful meeting of that glorious morning. Till we meet to part no more, sanga sung o
                                                                                    Joseph Dickson Inyang - Son 

To my Beloved Mother
Nne Akanawan, you’ve fought a good fight, you’ve accomplished a successful battle leaving no stone untouched. The greatest joy will be felt on that glorious morning when you shall be seated in the bosom of God Almighty. Nne Akanawan, esiere o. Eka ndito, sanga sung o till we meet to part no more.
                                                                                                            Adiaha Inyang (Eka Udo)



To my Beloved Great Grand Mother:
Grandma, it is a shock that I loss someone like you because of dead. O dead why have you decided to carry my grandma so quickly away from me when I am in a tender age.  I thought we would see forever but forever she is gone. Now you left without saying goodbye. I was left without a chance to say thank you. It is so hard to say, but I am greatly consoled that your demise from the flesh is to be present with the Lord forever
May your gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord, Amen 
                                                                                                            Master AniekanAbasi Friday
                                                                                                                        (Great Grand Son)


To my Great Grand Mother:
Nne, you will always be remembered for your words, wisdom, advice, motherly care peaceful disposition. You were a heroin of invaluable value, a rare gem and a matriarch. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace, Amen
                                                                                                            Aniedi Joseph Dickson

To my Great Grand Mother:
Like a candle burnt off, so is your exist on earth. To god be the glory for a life well spent. You were a source of happiness and strength to the family. We miss you but live to cherish the marbles you have left behind
Eti Nne! Sanga sung ooooo
           
                                                                                                            Imaobong Joseph

Tribute to Nne
It is certain that death signals the end to all mortals. But to loved ones, it drags a longer period of time to heal the wounds it creates. Nne, your dead though at a fulfilled age is a great loss to me, especially when I remember the good old days we lived together. How I imagine the evil day could be postponed for me to keep enjoying your unflinching support, love and advice, but to no avail.
I’m happy because your sacrifice of time, energy and money to raise me is not in vain. Today you left me considerably better. Nonetheless, your enduring legacies on the sand of time shall continue to speak for you, even though you are gone. This is because you were a mother indeed and a mother to all.
Nne, I really miss you. My imaginary board keep showing your good works in my life to prove that you are dead only in the physical but never in the eyes of my mind.
May God grant your repose eternal peace. Goodbye, Nne. Sosongo o, Sanga sung
                                                                                                Uko Marcus (aka Ikpe Nne)

Tribute to Adiaha Mma
Edima Eka, I thank God for the grace bestowed upon you to live a good life of God fearing, peace maker and accommodating in your sojourn on earth. You were a mother in Israel within and without the family. Adiaha Mma, the joy shall be when we meet again when the trumpet shall sound. May your soul rest in peace as you slept in the Lord. Eka usen mi esiere o
                                                                                                                        Nse Inyang (Nekeyen)

Tribute to a Loving Mother
Nne, I saw it coming but I never knew that it will be that day. I know that if it were within your control you would have loved to have a moment with us all at least to share the final pleasantries.  I want to belief that it is at the right time, but the reality of not going to see you again, till after the rapture, makes it a bit painful. Nonetheless, there is every reason to celebrate your exit because your life added value to others. Your dos and don’t even right from the kitchen has been the source of my inspiration. You were a role model and a mentor. I wouldn’t say you did not step on people’s toes as human, but by your nature and your character, you were industrious, gentle, peace loving and amiable. Nne, fare thee well. We shall meet again when the Lord shall return  
                                                                                                            Inyangenang, Udoaka D.



Appreciation

We the entire family of the deceased hereby express our gratitude to all our numerous sympathisers, friends, well-wisher, in-laws and other relations for your immense support, socially, spiritually, financially, and otherwise. For those of you who identified with us through social posting, phone calls and text messages, or have spared your time to be here with us, may you be blessed.
We want to appreciate the entire members of the officiating Church, A M E Zion Church, their Clergies and other ministers of God for their wonderful works. May God bless you all.
Our thanks also go to staff and management of Cottage Hospital, Ikot Ekpaw and Akwa Ibom State Hospital Management Board. We love you all.
To the staff and Management of Anchor Insurance Company Limited, the place where Insurance works, we say thank you and God Bless.
We want to seize this opportunity also to extend our thanks to The Office of Auditor General For the Federation. For identifying with us, you are wonderful.
Not forgetting to say a big thank you to Ekpuk Atan Uto Essang Akpan Abia Annang Ibok Ibom, Ekpuk Anwanga, Ikot Ekaide Minya, and Minya Community as a whole for your cooperation and support. May God bless you all.
To the two sisters of the deceased, the grand children, great grand children, nieces, cousin and nephews, mentioned and not mentioned, we pray God for guidance and the fortitude to bear the loss. Remain blessed
We will not be done until we say to The Almighty God, thank you for a day like this: for the success, the peace and the grace. All honour unto you alone, Amen

May the good Lord that brought you all here see you through safely back to your different destinations and grant you favour in your different endeavours through Christ our Lord, Amen

We wish you all a Merry Christmas and a prosperous new 2014

Thanks and God Bless


                                                                                                Joseph Dickson Inyang
                                                                                                        (Chief Mourner)




 Hymns
No. 519 (Efik)
1.       Ata emem, ke ererimbot mi?
Iyip Jesus ada emem edi
2.      Ata emem, ko okposong utom?
Utom Jesus edi utom emem.
3.      Ata emem, k’oto afanikong?
K’ubok Jesus, owo okut emem
4.      Atat emem, k’kpong mm’ufan anyan?
Jesus otim ekpeme mmo ye nyin
5.      Ata emem, k’ikwe ini iso?
Ikut Jesus, emi akand’ ini
6.      Ata emem, k’oyu mfut mkpa?
Jesus otim akan mkpa ama.
7.      Ata emem, k’uwem mibigheke?
Jesus okot nnyin ke emem k’enyong

No. 519 (English)
1.       Peace, perfect peace, in this dark world of sin?
The blood of Jesus whisper peace within
2.      Peace, perfect peace, by thronging duties pressed?
To do the will of Jesus, this is rest
3.      Peace, perfect peace, sorrows surging round?
On Jesus bosom naught but calm is found
4.      Peace, perfect peace, with loved ones far away?
In Jesus keeping we are safe and they.
5.      Peace, perfect peace, our future all unknown?
Jesus we know, and He is on the throne.
6.      Peace, perfect peace, death shadowing us and ours?
Jesus has vanquished death and all its powers
7.      It is enough, earth’s struggles soon shall cease,
And Jesus calls us to heaven’s perfect peace.

No. 474 (Efik)
1.       Afo nsinsi udeme mi. Akan ufan mm’uwem mi,
Ke ofuri isang uwem mi Yak nsanga ye Afo
Chorus
Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi,
Ke ofuri isang uwem mi, Yak nsanga ye Afo

2.      Mkpo isong ikemke mi, Nsuk nyire ke akam
Nyenam utom, k’idara, Yak mi nsanga ye Afo
Chorus
Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi,
Nyenam utom, ke idara, Yak mi nsanga y’Afo

3.      Da mi usung kini idiok, Kama mi mbe inyang,
K’inua otop nsinsi uwem, Yak mi nduk y’Afo Obong.
Chorus
Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi, Nkpere Fi,
K’inua otop nsinsi uwem, Yak mi nduk y’Afo Obong
           
No. 474 (English)
1.       Thou my everlasting portion, more than friend or life to me
All along my pilgrim journey, Saviour, let me walk with Thee
Chorus
Close to Thee, Close to Thee, Close to Thee, Close to Thee,
All along my pilgrim journey, Saviour let me walk with Thee

2.      Not for ease or worldly pleasure; nor for fame my prayer shall be;
Gladly will I toil and suffer; only let me walk with Thee
Chorus
Close to Thee, Close to Thee, Close to Thee, Close to Thee,
I will labour in gladness, only let me walk with Thee

3.      Lead me through the vale of shadow; bear me o’er life’s fitful sea;
Then the gate of life eternal; may I enter Lord with Thee
Chorus
Close to Thee, Close to Thee, Close to Thee, Close to Thee,
Through the gate of life eternal, may I enter lord with Thee

No. 561 (Efik)
1.       Wut mi usung, Afo akwa Ima; yung da mi nka.
Eyo okut, usung oyom eti, o da mi nka;
mum mi ubok, nyomke ndikut,
usung iso; da mi ikpat k’kpat

2.      K’ini uyen, ami nkoyomke Fi k’uwem emi.
Mbre y’ubong okodong mi eti, k’ini oro
Ima mbre y’ubong iyakke mi,
Nkere Fi, mbok k’uti oro.

3.      K’ayan ini Afo ododiong mi, suk kama mi
Tutu mbe idiok usung emi nsim idung
K’usiere ko ami nyekut mm’ufan
Ebemde mi iso eduk ubong

No. 561 (English)
1.       Lead kindly light, amid the encircling gloom, lead thou me on
The night is dark, and I am far from home, lead thou me on
Keep thou my feet, I do not ask to see
The distance scene, one step enough for me


2.      I was not ever thus, nor prayed that thou, shouldst lead me on
I love to choose and see my path, but now Lead thou me on,
I loved the garish day, and, spite of fears
Pride ruled my will, remember not past years

3.      So long thy power hath blest me , sure it still will lead me on
O’er moor and fen, o’er crag and torrent, till The night is gone
And with the morn those angel faces smile,
Which I have loved long since, and lost awhile.

No. 576 (Efik)
1.       Abasi mi, okoneyo k’edi
Eyo okut, mbok, di du y’ami,
Nkwe aba ufan ekededi,
O Andiyanya, di, di du y’ami

2.      Ibio usenuwem osop ebe,
Mm’nkpo isong enyung eyemere,
Kpukpru ekpuhore eti-eti
Afo ukpuhokede, du y’ami

3.      Kutiene mi k’odudu Edidem,
Edi sung sung k’ifure ye emem,
Ye mmong eyet, tua mi mbom k’emi,
Ufan mm’anam-idiok, di du y’ami

4.      Moyom Iso Fo ke ofuri ini,
Afo ikpong anyanga mi k’ini
Usua ukpong asang’ ekpere mi;
Ke eti, ye idiok, di du y’ami.

5.      K’ini Afo odud’ ekpere mi
Nkereke usua ekededi,
Ami mfeheke mkpa, mm’udi,
Makan kpukpru k’Afo odu y’ami

6.      Ndien k’mkpa ekperede, Obong,
O nyan ubok Fo, wut idung enyong,
Usung heaven ana inwang k’emi;
K’uwem y’mkpa, Obong, suk du y’ami

No. 576 (English)
1.       Abide with me, fast falls the eventide;
The darkness deepens; Lord, with me abide
When other helpers fail, and comforts flee.
Help of the helpless, o abide with me

2.      Swift to its close ebbs out life’s little day;
Earth’s joys grow dim; its glories pass away;
Change and decay in all around I see;
O Thou who changest not, abide with me.

3.      Follow me not with kindly might and power,
But gently, lowly, peacefully follow me,
With tears I plead for Thy mercy, O Lord
Friend of the friendless, o abide with me

4.      I need Thy presence every passing hour,
What but Thy grace can foil the tempter’s power?
Who like Thyself my guide and stay can be?
Through cloud and sunshine, o abide with me.

5.      I fear no foes, with Thee at hand to bless,
Ills have no weight, and tears no bitterness
Where is death still? Where grave, thy victory?
I triumph still Thou abide with me

6.      Hold Thou Thy cross before my closing eyes,
Shine through the gloom, and point me to the skies;
Heaven’s morning breaks, and earth’s vain shadows flee:
In life and death, o Lord, abide with me.